Monday, September 5, 2011

Why Guys Don't Bother To Call...

I love to go through Yahoo's articles before I log in to check my email.
Yesterday, as I was browsing through Yahoo, I saw this really interesting article called “Why men don't call for a second date”.

I found it really interesting and funny since it is the most frequent question women tend to wonder about after the first date.

I have never been on a date so I really can't relate to this but I wanted to share it with you guys along with pictures of a romantic date setting.
Just for fun. :D

Here are some real-life reasons (these were shared by different guys) to why men do not call for a second date:



1. I wasn’t ready for a serious girlfriend

“When I first met her, I felt a hot connection with this girl I knew nothing about. During our date, I got to know her better, liked her, and could tell she was really looking for a serious boyfriend. I could sense our expectations were different. I didn’t have the energy to explain to her that I wasn’t looking for my future wife right now, so I just passed.”
— Allan, 27, Westchester, NY

He's not the commitment kind of guy. Definitely not ready to settle down.

2. She was too self-absorbed

“She gabbed with me like I was a girlfriend. I guess I made her feel comfortable, since she had no problem telling me the minutiae of her life. She seemed very focused on how she was coming across. I wasn’t feeling it.”
— Bill, 33, Bethesda, MD

We, girls, have really got to watch out for this.
We definitely don't want to come off as vain and conceited.

3. I didn’t want to deal with any confrontation

“Sometimes women get upset when you say it’s not working for you. The attraction we had shared initially faded pretty fast. I don’t know why. She’d probably press me for some logical reason why I asked her out in the first place if the attraction was so iffy. But attraction isn’t created by logic.”
— Chad, 34, Washington, D.C.


Hmm, basically HE'S JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU!


4. I’m keeping my options open

“I had a good time on the date, but I’m focusing more on another girl I’ve been seeing for a few weeks. Who knows, I might change my mind and call.”
— Jack, 38, San Diego, CA

Jerk, why the heck is he dating around when he obviously likes another girl?! tsktsk.




5. She was annoying

“She had this annoying habit of throwing her head back when she laughed. It was too hysterical and weird for me.”
— Josh, 29, New York, NY

*GASP* Well, this was kind of harsh.


Funny right?!
I hope you girlies somewhat enjoyed reading this. I know I did.
And I hope that it helped some of you that are going through this situation understand why he didn't call.

ALWAYS REMEMBER THOUGH THAT THERE'S PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA.
DON'T LOSE HOPE. YOU'LL FIND HIM ONE DAY. :D



Any thoughts?!



*article from http://www.yahoo.com/*
*pictures from http://www.pinterest.com/*


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23 comments:

  1. omg, guys are so hard to understand!!!

    i really enjoyed this post!

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  2. I read this article. It was definitely helpful haha. I like all the romantic date locations. Thanks for sharing! :)

    XoXo, Bree
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  3. @MissIndependent: I know right! :/

    @Bree: Thanks. I'm glad you enjoyed it!

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  4. Some of these definately made me smile :)
    the guy who was seeing someone else, I agree a bit of a jerk lol!! x

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  5. haha...I saw this on yahoo the other day bt i didn't bother reading lol..being married makes u not wanna read this kinda stuff lol

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  6. @Radiant: Glad it made you smile! :)

    @Zizi: That's so true. No need to read when you already found your soulmate. :D

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  7. an interesting read! boys ...

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    giveaway going on now!

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  8. great post, carrie! definitely interesting! plus the pictures were fun to look at. :D

    <3, Mimi
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    $25 Apothica gift card giveaway. :)

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  9. Carrie, this is hilarious and I've done my fair of dating and everything written here is true and spot on. This posting made me have to follow you!

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  10. @Mimi: Thank you!

    @Jen: Awh, thank you so much. Glad you enjoyed it.

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  11. This was a fun read, I'm glad my husband was never confusing!;D

    ***** Marie *****
    allthingsmarie.com

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  12. It's never our (girls) loss!!! =)

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  13. Ah, okay- now I know what you meant ;) Yes, that Halloween themed collar is actually a really good idea. Or in that case as it's white one could use it for a ghost costume. Would be a quite stylish ghost, haha :D
    xx


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  14. @Marie: Awh, that's cute. :D

    @Aphrodite: So true! LOL.

    @Krysten: I know right! tsktsk.

    @Vicky: haha. Definitely. :]

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  15. Great post!It vas funny to read some of these!

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  16. I'm ok with all these opinios but I can't stand the one in which guy sees another girl. jerk!

    "she was annoying". hahahaha
    this was the funniest!

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